“I Can’t Be Spiritual + Sexy”

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Do you ever say things like…?

  • “I can’t be spiritual and sexy.”
  • “I can’t have love and money.”
  • “I can’t be sexy and professional.  I won’t be taken seriously.”

I recently looked up the word, “abracadabra,” and it means, “I create what I speak.”

Say out loud, “I create what I speak,” and feel the power in those words.

You really do have the ability to sculpt your reality and create anything you desire!

Since words are potent, it’s crucial to be conscious and intentional with your words and the stories you share.

So many women argue for their limitations and share why something’s impossible rather than how they can make it happen.

My dad used to always say, “If all those other people can do it, so can you!” 

That sentence has served me well over the years.  It reminds me to look for role models who have achieved the results I’m seeking.  If it’s possible for one, it’s possible for all.

When it comes to sex and money, what are you saying?  How do those clichés make you feel?

For a lot of women, these are “taboo” topics can often can trigger deep emotions: Resistance, envy, desire and shame.

In the past, I experienced the spectrum of emotions too (fear, anxiety, guilt, regret – you name it), and I know how heart-wrenching and uncomfortable it can feel.

Fortunately, I healed those disempowering thoughts and feelings, and you can too!


Niurka, author of Supreme Influence says, “Your life mirrors the quality of the questions you ask. Questions direct your focus. They determine what you perceive, attract, and materialize in a universe of infinite possibility.”

I love this quote because it’s so true. In the coaching industry, we say, “Whatever you focus on expands.”

As you go about your day, direct your attention towards your desires and expect a miracle.

Also ask yourself empowering, “How?” questions that ignite a shift within you and create a positive vibe that magnetizes what you want.

As you do, I promise you your life will change in miraculous ways!

It’s time to create a new association with sex, money and all things spiritual and awaken unlimited possibilities. 

You can feel free and expansive.

You can let go of shame, embarrassment, and fear.

You can be a powerful woman.  

You can have love and money.

You can be soulful, sexy and profoundly successful.


Here’s to having it all …

Success and soul. Money and meaning. Pleasure and play. Passion and partnership. Love and friendship. Intimacy and ecstasy.

Do you feel you believe you can have it all?  Leave a comment below, and let me know!


Gabrielle Whitney
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